Diary Written in the Provincial Lunatic Asylum by Mary Huestis Pengilly

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Produced by Stacy Brown, K.D. 1885. I remember telling the Doctor, on his first visit to my room, that I only needed biscuit and milk and beef tea to make me well. He rose to his feet and said, "I know better than any other man." I can't bear to see myself in the glass, I am so wasted--so miserable. My poor boys, no wonder you look so sad, to see your mother looking so badly, and be compelled to leave her here alone among strangers who know nothing about her past life. She was making it for some friend in the Asylum. He said, "Very well, something shall come to you;" and Mrs. Hays, who is Assistant Nurse in our Ward, brought me a plate of food and fruit, such as is generally had at festivals. I did ask Mrs. Mills, and she says, "Ask Mrs. Murphy, she has charge of the trunk room." I asked her; she says she will see, and she will bring me whatever I need that is in it. I have more to occupy my time now. I do it when no one sees me. I shall do all I can to make myself comfortable, and they all share it. I am regulating the comfort of this ward in a measure, but they don't know it. And I said, "Oh Lewis, my dear boy, I am well enough to go home with you to your hotel now." His reply was, "I don't keep a boarding house." There is a dear girl here whose presence has helped to pass the time more pleasantly, and yet I am more anxious on her account. She has been teaching school, has over-worked, had a fever, lost her reason, and came here last June. She is well enough to go home. She is afraid of Mrs. Mills, and dare not ask for any favor. He said they were for the indigent patients, so I got none. No one would do me an errand outside. I was so hungry for milk, but she said it was against the rules of the house. She gives me now a glass nearly full at bed time, with one soda biscuit. This is the only luxury we have here; some others get the same. I don't think so. She does not seem a lunatic, and she is neglected. I tied her eye up with my own handkerchief, and a wet rag on it. I did not mean to offend, I had done so before and it was not observed. If I were committed to the penitentiary for a crime, I would not be used any worse than I am here. My heart longs for sympathy, and has it not. There is a Miss Short here--a fair-haired, nice-looking girl; she stands up and reads in the Testament as if she were in Sunday-school, recites poetry, and tries to play on the piano. I did not think her much out of order when she came, but she is now. Her father came to see her, and she cried to go home with him. She looked _so sad_, I was drawn to her at once. I unloosened her laces and underskirts to make them easy; they are all neat and tidy, as if she had come from a good home. Another day is here. There is a lady here from Westmoreland; her hair is cut short, and her eyes are black and wild. The first time I spoke to her she struck me, lightly, and I walked away; I knew she was crazy. I wish I was like you." I thought, perhaps, she had done some great wrong. She has been here a long time. The nurses were using force, and she struggled against it. They made her walk. Perhaps she has read too much and injured her brain; if so, I would not let her read so much. She is too old a woman, and her temper has been too much tried. She is tidy, and works well for so old a woman, but she is not fit for a nurse. If they knew all as I do, they would not leave her here another day. There is a Miss Snow here from St. Stephens. I remember distinctly when I first came, she raved all the time. To be true to ourselves and to our fellows, is all the good we need. That I have always striven to do, does now my spirit feed. I was very much alone, engaged in writing a book on the laws of health. I fasted eight days, and felt comfortable and happy most of the time. I sang to myself, "O death, where is thy sting, where is thy victory, boasting grave." I wept for my own sins, and wished to die, the world to save. I ordered them away, but they would not go. I remember I kissed him when he came, asked him what he came for, and bade him leave me. Poor boys, they went in and out; it seemed to me they did not eat or sleep for some days; I thought they were as crazy as I was in the cars. My poor boys, how tried and worried they must have been. I can but laugh when I think of it now, but it was very real to me then. I was confirmed by Bishop John Fredricton, in Trinity Church. I tasted it, and my fast was broken. They did not seem to know what they were doing. I had two bonnets, but they never mentioned them, as I remember. They left my night-cap on, and tied a silk handkerchief over it. They carried me down stairs in their arms, and lifted me in the coach. I tried to cheer them, and they could not help smiling at me. I wondered they were not ashamed of me, I looked so badly. Poor boys, I wonder if they remember that journey in the cars as I do. All who do their duty as they were doing, to the best of their ability, are the children of God; for, if we do the best we can, angels can do no more. They did not live to coax crazy people. If we live well, we will not be afraid to die. Dear Lorelle, we all loved her for her goodness, and pitied her for her infirmity. I know she is happy now. It is this waiting so long a prisoner, begging to be liberated. She is a well-educated, intelligent lady. This day, I remember, was worse than common days of trouble. She is vexed at any expression of sympathy. Again I hear that pitiful cry, and I go up the hall to see what the trouble is. I return, for I can't endure the sight. I met Mrs. Mills, with a large spoon, going to stuff her as she did me. She was angry at me again; she ordered me to my room, and threatened to lock me in. I am sorry to have him go so far. I have dreamed of seeing him looking wretched and crying for fresh air, for he was suffocating. This day I had urged him all I could, and he left me, saying he had too much on his mind today. I have stood almost where He has stood, once before in my life. No steam on; I tried the radiators, but there was no hot air to come. He said, "The hard coal is all gone." He drew me away from her, saying, "I don't wish her to hear this. Don't you know, Mr. Ring went to Annapolis and hung himself?" I would like so much to look after these poor women, who are so neglected. He received me very kindly, as did also his good lady. "Lewis Huestis," said he, "I knew him well."